When people break off a relationship, it’s common they want to take something from their ex. They may want to take their money or take their reputation or whatever.

They mistakenly believe that if they take a person down, they will go up. But it never works that way because life is not a zero-sum game.

You’re better off to brainstorm win/win scenarios. Transcend any tendency you have to try to take someone down so you can go up, because your effort is likely to have the opposite effect!

Even if you do take someone down, where does that leave you?  Down with them, most likely!

I specialize in helping people get on track so they can be successful in relationships. It’s been a constant focus on this blog. People have so much trouble is this area – why? Is it your chart?

I don’t think it is.  Well, you have to deal with your chart and your conflicting impulses; your complexity and theirs but I still don’t think that’s it. I think you’re setup to fail.

Yes, there is a lot of money to be made when people are lonely, isolated and miserable.  At this point, I am astonished at the depth of the sabotage aimed at the every day man or woman out there. I have come to understand this, deeply, courtesy Pluto’s transit through my 12th house.

If you feel you need your head untangled on this issue, I can help.